Comments on: Five months and ten days later http://shotthrutheheart.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/five-months-and-ten-days-later/ A betrayed wife recovering from infidelity while writing through the pain Sat, 24 Oct 2009 02:50:35 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Sandy http://shotthrutheheart.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/five-months-and-ten-days-later/#comment-41 Sandy Sun, 18 May 2008 14:31:33 +0000 http://shotthrutheheart.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-41 I am so sorry to hear you are in the same situation as I am. This is all still fresh for you but I promise your thoughts will all clear up and when they do, you will see two different paths in front of you. At that point, you will be faced with a decision on which path you are going to take. If there was only one piece of advice I can give you right now, it would be to take care of yourself to get through this very difficult time. You are right, a betrayal does scar your relationship forever. No matter how much you heal or even work towards forgiving, that scar will always be there as a reminder of what you went through. I am so sorry to hear you are in the same situation as I am. This is all still fresh for you but I promise your thoughts will all clear up and when they do, you will see two different paths in front of you. At that point, you will be faced with a decision on which path you are going to take. If there was only one piece of advice I can give you right now, it would be to take care of yourself to get through this very difficult time.

You are right, a betrayal does scar your relationship forever. No matter how much you heal or even work towards forgiving, that scar will always be there as a reminder of what you went through.

]]> By: Kat Neal http://shotthrutheheart.wordpress.com/2008/05/08/five-months-and-ten-days-later/#comment-37 Kat Neal Mon, 12 May 2008 19:39:22 +0000 http://shotthrutheheart.wordpress.com/?p=32#comment-37 It's a good thing to be able to share your journey. I'm only 10 days away from the discovery day and my thoughts are such a jumble. I have felt everything you have. The morning after finding out I too recall hoping with my eyes still shut that this could please be a horrible nightmare. I did not want the sun to rise on this mess. I do believe he loves me and I do still love him. But it's next impossible to believe that this betrayal won't scar our relationship forever. It's all so sad and shameful. I called and talked to the "other woman". And then her husband called me! If I had nothing else to do this craziness would dominate my world. But there are SO MANY other things that need attention! Heaven help us all... It’s a good thing to be able to share your journey. I’m only 10 days away from the discovery day and my thoughts are such a jumble. I have felt everything you have. The morning after finding out I too recall hoping with my eyes still shut that this could please be a horrible nightmare. I did not want the sun to rise on this mess. I do believe he loves me and I do still love him. But it’s next impossible to believe that this betrayal won’t scar our relationship forever. It’s all so sad and shameful. I called and talked to the “other woman”. And then her husband called me! If I had nothing else to do this craziness would dominate my world. But there are SO MANY other things that need attention! Heaven help us all…

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